In modern times like these, our wolds are so converging, so connected, so easy to feel pain. He posted a picture, of a picture, of a girl in Mykonos, with the caption: “I met the most beautiful girl in the world”. This was the babiest step to our separation. The collateral to moving on. There was nothing wrong with him doing this. There was everything terrible in how I felt about it. Numbed, shocked, piercing pain. Looking at the picture again. Numbed, shocked, piercing pain.

So this is what they mean when they say set boundaries. Block them on all social media. Tell them what level of communication works for you and what doesn’t. Tell them you don’t want to hear from them. No more screenshots, no more comments on your pictures, no more I miss yous. Set the rules. Your rules.

Oof seems so assertive. Who is this assertive.

Mess Mess


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Dear Girls (and Boys!), Boys will hurt you, a lot of them. You'll feel like your heart is breaking at age 12, at 16, and then properly at 21 and then really at 26. When it breaks again before you are 30, that will be the real one, wait for it, every single one is everything, and nothing. It’s all great and terrible, it’s all worth it...
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